Fun Flirty Questions To Ask Your Crush Or Your Partner (In Person Or While Texting) – Intimate Questions They Can’t Resist

You’ve just getting to know each other. Everything is exhilarating, if not a little frightening. The good news is that by asking some flirty questions at the right time, you can take your relationship to the next level. But what should you ask your crush in terms of flirting questions? And how can you ask those questions without coming across as obnoxious or strange?

Or you’re probably already dating and sending texts regularly, you’re definitely flirting here and there, and you want to spice things up with them. Texting is a convenient way to communicate, especially in the beginning. Intentional conversation starters increase connection while also keeping things light-hearted. Here are some of the flirtiest questions you can ask your crush or partner!

• Flirty questions to ask a guy:

1. Would you rather take things slow or move fast?
2. How well do you kiss?
3. Do you have a crush on anyone?
4. What is your idea of the perfect date?
5. What turns you on the most in a person?
6. If I asked you to stay over, would you?
7. What’s your favorite thing about me?
8. What’s your favorite type of kiss?
9. What is the most romantic thing you’ve ever done?
10. Do you like to cuddle?

• Questions to ask a guy flirty:

1. Do you dream about me? Because I do.
2. So… why should I go on a date with you? Convince me.
3. Do I make you nervous when I’m around?
4. Would you ever cook for me?
5. Do you think I’m cute?
6. Do you have a secret fantasy that I should know about?
7. What can I do to turn you on right now?
8. Do you know why I’m so into you?
9. What is a weird fetish that you have?
10. Why am I so attracted to you?

• Questions to ask a guy to flirt:

1. What’s the absolute best pick up line you’ve ever heard?
2. Can you describe your ideal type in 5 words?
3. How do you feel about a girl making the first move?
4. How would someone usually let you know that she likes you?
5. Is anyone gonna get jealous if they find out you’re talking to me?
6. Can you tell me something you’ve never told someone else?
7. What did you think when you first saw me?
8. Why don’t you tell me more about yourself?
9. Where would you get a tattoo and what would it say?
10. Do you think you could treat a girl right?

• Naughty questions to ask him over text:

1. How can someone like you stay remotely single?
2. Your mom and dad are super good looking right?
3. Are you strong enough to pick me up?
4. What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you in front of a girl?
5. How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
6. What is the most romantic thing you have done in your life?
7. How long have you been working out?
8. Would you rather be called sexy or smart?

• Flirty questions to ask:

1. What blows you away as far as men are concerned?
2. What blows you away as far as women are concerned?
3. What is your idea of a perfect girl?
4. What is your idea of a perfect guy?
5. If you are to dedicate a song to your boyfriend, what songs will it be?
6. What is your idea of a perfect date?
7. How do you feel around me?
8. What do you look for in a girl?
9. What do you look for in a guy?
10. How do you like me? Just as a friend or something more?

• Freaky questions to ask a guy:

1. Do you like flirty talk?
2. What outfits do you like seeing me wearing?
3. Guess what I am wearing on the inside?
4. Guess if I am wearing underwear or not?
5. Which parts of my body do you like the most?
6. Do you sometimes check me out?
7. Would you run away with me to a new country with a new culture?
8. Do you like me?
9. How much do you like me?
10. Do I make you happy?

• Freaky questions to ask your boyfriend over text:

1. In an ideal world, how long would foreplay be?
2. What do my lips taste like?
3. Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?
4. If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
5. If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?
6. If we were in a movie theater, and I wanted to do it, what would you want me to do?
7. What’s one thing you want me to do to you that I haven’t done?
8. What’s the farthest you’ve gone on a first date?
9. What would you do if I sent you a dirty photo of me?
10. How would you describe your package?

• Flirty 20 questions:

1. Is laughing in the bedroom okay with you, or do you prefer keeping things serious?
2. What’s the longest you’ve gone without doing it?
3. What’s the most number of times you’ve done it in a row?
4. Do you like watching me touch myself?
5. I heard kissing burns a lot of calories. Want to help me exercise?
6. Do you want to play dirty truth or dare?
7. Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?
8. What would you do if I answered the door without clothes on?
9. Have you ever been caught going solo? By who?
10. Do you prefer your women shaved or all natural?
11. What was the last dirty dream you had? Was I in it?
12. What naughty fantasies do you have about me?
13. What’s one public place where you would want to do it?
14. Have you ever bought lingerie for a woman?
15. What’s the best thing a woman can do to you in bed?
16. What do you look for in a partner for the bedroom?
17. Spit or swallow?
18. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?
19. Does the thought of recording a video turn you on?
20. Would you like to dominate me in bed?

• Flirty first date questions:

1. What’s the most romantic thing that someone has done for you?
2. Do you believe in love at first sight?
3. Can you name three things which always make you smile?
4. Are you a texting or a calling kind of a person?
5. How is this date going so far according to you?
6. What is that one thing that you could talk about forever?
7. What is going on in your mind right now?
8. Where did you learn to smile that million dollar smile?
9. Do you think there’s a chance you could fall in love tonight?
10. Do you know you are driving me crazy already?

• 11 flirty questions to ask a girl:

1. There’s just something about you. I haven’t figured out what it is yet. Do you know?
2. You drive me a little crazy, you know that?
3. You know you’re amazing right?
4. Wanna get outta here?
5. What would you say if I asked you out to dinner?
6. Do you believe in love at first sight?
7. What’s behind that smile of yours I wonder?
8. Is it too early to tell you how amazing I feel around you?
9. Can you name three things that always make you smile?
10. What are you thinking of right now?
11. What am I thinking of right now? Guess.

• How to ask a guy to be your boyfriend:

1. Do your friends know about me?
2. Do you want to date other girl’s or do you want to have me?
3. I’m a lot to handle, are you sure you want to date me?
4. Would you be jealous if you saw me flirting with another guy?
5. Do you want to come to hang out with my friends?
6. Do you mind if I post this picture of us on Instagram?
7. Can you give me a massage?
8. If I never talked to you again, how much would you miss me?
9. What did you think about me on our first date?
10. Are you surprised that we are still dating?

• Flirty conversation starters:

1. Do you like sexting?
2. Have you ever done it in front of other people?
3. Have you ever done it with more than one woman in one day?
4. Do you like getting tied up? How about tying me up?
5. Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
6. Have you ever hooked up with someone you weren’t supposed to hook up with?
7. Have you ever used food during intimacy?
8. Have you ever gotten a lap dance?
9. Are you part of the mile high club?
10. Have you ever played strip poker?

• Questions to ask your crush flirty:

1. How would you want to know if someone likes you?
2. What do you like the most about yourself?
3. Is everyone else in your family also really good-looking?
4. What would you do if I called you in the middle of the night?
5. What do you wear when you sleep?
6. Do you even realize how much I like talking to you?
7. How do you feel when we are together?
8. What makes someone sexy to you?
9. Have you ever dreamt of me?
10. How would you respond if I asked you out tonight?

• 21 freaky questions to ask your crush:

1. What corny pick-up line have you used that’s actually worked? Try it on me
2. What cute things do you enjoy doing when you’re dating someone?
3. Do you think you’d ever be willing to have an open relationship?
4. Have you ever used dating apps or websites?
5. What was the first thing you thought about me when you saw me?
6. If we were to end up on an deserted island, what are the three things you’d want to have with us?
7. Do you think a guy and a girl can be friends without catching feelings?
8. If you could spend an entire day with your crush, what would you do?
9. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever done to get a crush’s attention?
10. What is your biggest turn on?
11. How would you know if I was the right person for you?
12. What is your biggest weakness?
13. Do you think guys should always make the first move?
14. What does a happy and healthy relationship look like to you?
15. What would your exes say about you if I asked?
16. What would you do if someone walked up to you and kissed you?
17. What is your unrealized sexual fantasy?
18. If you had to choose between your best friend and your girlfriend, what you would do?
19. What do you remember about the time you met me?
20. What role does physical attraction play in whether or not you should pursue a romantic relationship?
21. If you could ask me one question, and I had to answer truthfully, what would you ask me?

• Spicy questions to ask your boyfriend:

1. What is your favorite part of my body?
2. You decide to give me a full body massage. Where do you start?
3. What do you prefer: boy shorts or thongs?
4. What’s an instant turn-on for you?
5. Black lace or white T-shirt?
6. Would you rather see me in lingerie or nothing at all?
7. What is one thing that I wear that you find completely irresistible?
8. Have you ever just wanted to tear my clothes off?
9. Can you give me a good example of your dirty talk?
10. I ask you to dress me for our date night. Which outfit of mine would you pick?

• Flirty questions to ask your crush girl:

1. What is the most memorable thing you have ever done with someone special to your life?
2. What makes you nervous in front of a guy?
3. What would you do in case of an alien attack or zombie apocalypse?
4. What is your love language: flowers, hikes, cash gifts…?
5. If we are to spend a day together, where will it be?
6. What attracted you to me?
7. What is your #1 deal-breaker in a relationship?
8. What does love mean to you?
9. What would you like me to do right now that will make you happier?
10. What is your idea of an ideal man?
11. What is your idea of an ideal relationship?

• Flirty would you rather questions:

1. Would you rather be under the tree with your crush or be under the sun at the beach with your crush?
2. Would you rather have someone older than you hit on you or hit on someone older than you?
3. Would you rather be filthy rich and not find true love or find true love but be poor?
4. Would you rather go swimming or go hiking?
5. Would you rather go watch a movie or go watch the moonlight?
6. Would you rather kiss my lips in the public or kiss my forehead in private?
7. Would You Rather Let Your Spouse Date Your Best Friend Or Your Arch Enemy?
8. Would you rather eat the food prepared by your mom or your grand-mom?
9. Would you rather eat the food prepared by your dad or your boyfriend?
10. Would you rather be rich and ugly or cute but poor?

• Flirty questions to ask your crush:

1. Where’s the strangest place you’ve ever had sex?
2. How do you make sure that you please your partner in the bedroom?
3. What makes sex really good for you?
4. Do you have any regrets about past partners?
5. How did you lose your virginity?
6. Are you a big kisser?
7. What does making love mean to you?
8. If we had an entire weekend together, what would you really want to do?
9. What’s something you never want to do during sex?
10. What was the worst sexual experience you’ve ever had?

• Intimate questions to ask a guy:

1. How do you define love?
2. Would you rather be the little spoon or big spoon?
3. What’s something you wish you were good at?
4. Who inspires you to be a better person?
5. What career has always interested you?
6. If you could do anything different, what would you have done?
7. Who comforts you the best when you’re feeling sad?
8. What was the first thing you noticed about me?
9. What do you think you would do if I kissed you the next time I saw you?
10. Would you say that you are more introverted or extroverted?

• Would you rather questions flirty:

1. Would you rather suggest a one night stand to me or suggest a one night stand to a stranger?
2. Would you rather grab my butt while dancing or grab my waist while dancing?
3. Would you rather hit on a married person or be married and have someone hit on you?
4. Would you rather date someone you hardly know or someone who you consider a friend?
5. Would you rather hit on someone much older than you or have someone much older hit on you?
6. Would you rather tell me about your sexual fantasies or have me tell you about my sexual fantasies?
7. Would you rather hug or kiss?
8. Would you rather date someone who likes you more or who you like more?
9. Would you rather be purely physical with someone you like or make a serious commitment to someone you like?
10. Would you rather give a striptease or get a striptease?