Every excellent bonding begins with a good conversation. Guys may be hesitant at first, but they enjoy sharing their life experiences and the same goes for women as well. It’s a common misperception that only girls enjoy telling stories. The secret is to ask a smart question and to be patient and kind with the guy.
Here are some of the finest questions to ask a guy to keep the conversation going and learn more about them.
- Random Questions To Ask A Guy:
When you are on a date with someone you like, one of the last things you want to discuss is something boring like the weather. Do you think this is great? Probably NO.
When you are in doubt about what to ask and what not, there are plenty of random questions to ask a guy to get into a more interesting and exciting conversation going to keep both of you connected.
These questions are great to ask when you are still getting to know someone, if you are on a first, second or third date with a guy or you are trying to know a little more about him.
- What is your all-time favorite film that you’ve seen a thousand times?
- When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
- If money were no object, where would you travel on vacation if you could go any place in the world?
- How would you spend a million dollars if you won the lottery?
- What about a woman appeals to you the most?
- What is your most shocking ability that you adore the most?
- What is one thing about you that everyone usually gets wrong?
- How do you unwind after a long, tiring day?
- Who do you look up to as a role model? Do you have any role models?
- Which celebrity do you most wish to meet?
- Is there anything you’ve never been really excellent at?
- What is the one thing about a woman that you always notice first?
- 11. Which of your childhood memories is your favorite?
- What are you most proud of in your life that you hve done so far?
- What have you done that you’re not very pleased with?
- Can you tell me about the scariest thing you’ve ever dne?
- If you could be a pro athlete in any sport, which one woud you choose?
- Who would you marry if you could marry only one celebrity?
- What is your best friend’s favorite that you adore?
- What do you consider to be the best aspect of being in a relationship?
- Which animal is your favorite? And why?
- Is there anything on your bucket list that you’d like to cross off as soon as possible?
- What’s something on your bucket list that you don’t think you’ll ever do?
- What’s the strangest thing that’s ever happened on a date to you?
- On your CV, what do you always lie about?
- Which show do you think you could binge-watch multiple times
- What’s your favorite way to flirt? Can you show me how?
- On a first date, what would be the worst thing that could happen to you?
- Who would you like to meet if you could meet one dead celebrity?
- Who is your favorite Instagram user to follow? And why?
- What are your worst dating pet peeves?
- If you could change one thing about social media, what would it be?
- What is one thing a woman can do to impress you right away?
- What has been your most humiliating experience on date?
- What is one thing a lady may do to turn you off instantly?
- What’s the best praise you’ve ever received?
- What brings a smile to your face even when you’re having a bad day?
- Do you prefer to spend the rest of your life with dogs or cats?
- Tell me something that no one else knows about you.
- As a kid, what was your favorite candy or treat?
- What food would you be if you could be any fod, and why?
- Do you believe that in the future more apes will become humans?
- Would you prefer to be the one to lead the relationship or have someone else lead it?
- Who is the one person in the world that you would marry, kill, and kiss?
- What’s the funniest joke you’ve ever heard about yourself?
- What’s the most amusing thing you’ve ever done with you friends?
- Have you ever had to use the restroom in front of a girlfriend?
- Have you ever had to wait a long time to use the restroom on a first date?
- Have you ever canceled a date? If so, then why did you do that?
- How long do you spend every morning getting ready?
- Why did the concept of “beta guys” become popular in our culture?
- Right now, who is someone you’d like to marry? Can you tell me about her?
- What is one item that you must place in your bathroom drawer?
- What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done in front of your mother?
- In a deathmatch, God or the Devil, who would win?
- What personal questions should a new friend avoid? And why?
- What are some foods you would never eat? And why do you hate it?
- What do you consider to be your most attractive physical feature?
- What is it about me that you admire the most? And why?
- What would you do if you could change jobs right now? Or are you satisfied with your current job?
- Give me three words that best describe who you are.
- What is your ideal date type? And who do you prefer?
- What is the most exciting vacation you’ve ever experienced? Do you want to experience it again?
- Tell us about a country you’d like to visit.
- Do you like to go camping or clubbing? Do you prefer my company for this?
- What are your greatest fears? Is it a big deal for you?
- Can you tell me about the nicest thing you’ve ever done for a woman?
- What is the most thoughtful thing a woman has done for you?
- What is your biggest dating obstacle? And why?
- What is your earliest memory of childhood? Can you tell the story of it?
- What is one item that consistently irritates you? And why?
- What do you believe to be your most great achievement to date?
- What do you like best about where you live?
- What is one feature about your current location that you truly hate?
- Do you have a favorite Starbucks order?
- What would you acquire if you could only get one present?
- Would you rather get a present, gift cards, or cash?
- Do you consider yourself to be an introvert or an extrovert?
- If you could go back in time and change one thing about your life, what would it be?
- When you need to unwind, where do you like to go?
- Do you prefer to work out at the gym or at home?
- Can you tell me about the last time you cried? And why did you cry?
- Is there anything a lady can do that you will never forgive her for?
- Have you ever had a friend betray you?
- What do you enjoy most about your friends? And why?
- How did your best friend and you meet?
- What is the first question you ask a woman on a first date?
- Do you want to start a family? Or is it your last plan?
- What makes you wish to start a family if you want?
- What’s the worst situation you’ve ever found yourself in?
- Would you prefer a beach vacation or a vacation in a cool city?
- Do you have a favorite book? Can you tell me its name?
- Tell me about the worst movie you’ve ever seen.
- What superpower would you like to have? Howwould you use it?
- What is the most enjoyable activity you have ever shared with your friends?
- Do you have a stronger bond with your mother or father?
- Who in your family is your favorite? And for what reason?
- What do you consider to be your most outstanding achievement?
- Can you tell me about your strangest habit?
- What would you do if you had a day off with nothing to do?
- Questions To Ask Ur Girlfriend:
There’s always more you can know about your girlfriend at any stage of the relationship. Knowing about your girlfriend’s past, their goals for the future, how they process their emotions, along with their likes and dislikes, brings you closer together. (As the sex columnist at Men’s Health, I can tell you with certainty that vulnerability and honesty are what lead to a happy and fulfilling relationship!) It’ll also make your relationship stronger since you’ll know how to communicate with each other more effectively.
That said, we compiled a long list of questions to ask your girlfriend to get to know her better.
- Who was your childhood celebrity crush?
- Share one of the times you laughed the hardest.
- If you could only listen to one song for the rest of your life, what song would it be?
- What word do you hate?
- Which celebrities have you met? What were they like?
- What is your favorite guilty pleasure to watch or read?
- What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done on a dare?
- What were you like in high school?
- Which actor would play you in a movie about your life?
- What is your favorite part about being an adult?
- What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever bought?
- What’s one of the most embarrassing things that has ever happened to you?
- Have you ever been to a palm reader?
- What sign are you?
- How much do you believe in astrology?
- Do you believe in ghosts?
- Have you ever broken any bones?
- Do you collect anything?
- What would be your “at bat” song?
- Do you believe in any superstitions?
- If you could go back to one moment in your life and do things differently, which moment would you choose? How would you do it differently?
- Have you ever been skydiving?
- Have you ever tried to invent something?
- Have you ever been scuba diving?
- Would you ever go on a silent retreat?
- Do you want to have kids?
- Would you consider adopting children?
- Are you okay with having a surrogate?
- How close are you to your family?
- Is it important to live close to your family?
- How long was your longest relationship?
- Why have your past relationships ended?
- Have you ever lived with a partner? What was that like?
- Are you religious or spiritual? How important are religion and spirituality to you?
- How many hours a week do you typically work?
- How many hours a night do you sleep?
- How important is it to you to have a lot of money?
- What’s an accomplishment you’re most proud of?
- When was the last time you voted?
- Who did you vote for?
- What’s the number one thing you look for in a partner?
- Are you on time? How important is it that your partner runs on time?
- What is something important you’ve learned from another couple?
- What is your love language?
- What do you fear most in a relationship?
- What do you think is the most essential element for maintaining a relationship?
- Are you friends with your exes?
- Are you more introverted or extroverted?
- Do you hold onto grudges?
- What makes you irrationally angry?
- Have you struggled with mental illness?
- How often do you clean your apartment?
- Do you make your bed every day?
- How long do you tend to leave dishes in the sink?
- If one of us was to make more in the relationship, how do you feel about splitting things?
- When can you tell you’re really comfortable with a partner?
- Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
- What do you consider cheating? (Is sending nudes to someone on Instagram cheating? Is a kiss on the lips cheating, etc.?)
- Have you ever been cheated on?
- Have you ever cheated on your past partners? Did you tell them?
- Do you think a relationship can come back from cheating?
- Is your ideal relationship monogamous, open, polyamorous, or another form of ethical non-monogamy?
- Have you ever had your heart broken?
- Have you ever struggled with addiction?
- What makes you jealous?
- How do you handle your jealousy?
- What’s the biggest misconception people have about you?
- Are you in therapy? (If so, for how long? If not, why not?)
- Would you be okay with going to couple’s therapy?
- Have you ever snooped on a partner?
- How often do you see your friends? How important are your friends to you?
- Do you love to travel?
- What do you like to do on the weekends?
- Are you more of a homebody, or do you like to go out and party?
- Do you like to dance?
- Do you drink, smoke, or do drugs? How often? What’s your relationship like with substances?
- Do you like to read? What type of books?
- When, if ever, do you think it’s okay to lie?
- Do you like to watch TV? What genre of TV?
- What do you think is your best attribute as a girlfriend?
- If I called up all your exes, what would be the other thing they all say you have in common?
- What makes you the most emotional?
- What brings you the most joy?
- What’s the biggest risk you’ve taken?
- What do you like most about yourself?
- What do you like the least about yourself?
- Do you cry? How often?
- Would you ever want to have pets? Cats, dogs, another pet?
- Could you ever see yourself in a long-distance marriage?
- How do you feel about hiring a nanny, housekeeper, etc.?
- What did you learn about yourself during COVID?
- If you could snap your fingers and change one thing about your life, what would it be?
- What’s a story you’ve always wanted to tell, but never got a chance to?
- What’s one thing your friends think is fun that you don’t?
- Do you find you pronounce any words differently than other people?
- What’s a song you like from a genre or band you don’t like?
- Is there something you could cut out of your life with little effort that would save you tons of money?
- What’s something you like to do that’s underrated?
- Has anything weird happened to you lately?
- Are you known for anything special in your hometown/friend group?
