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320 Questions To Ask Out A Girl Over Text

320 Questions To Ask Out A Girl Over Text-AffectionGuide
320 Questions To Ask Out A Girl Over Text-AffectionGuide

“Do you want to be my girlfriend?” isn’t the only way to ask a girl out over text. Guys, this isn’t middle school anymore!

Now, texting a girl to ask her out is a little more complicated (but not by much!) than that.

We’ll show you how to ask a girl out through text step by step in this article. We’ll also include a few pointers on how to text a girl so she wants to go on a date in person.

You’ll have no issue finding out how to ask a girl out through text and how to get a girlfriend if you follow our advice and fit this into your dating style.

  • Questions To Ask A Girl Over Text:
  1. What is the most memorable thing you have ever done with someone special to your life?
  2. What makes you nervous in front of a guy?
  3. What would you do in case of an alien attack or zombie apocalypse?
  4. What is your love language: flowers, hikes, cash gifts…?
  5. If we are to spend a day together, where will it be?
  6. What is your #1 deal-breaker in a relationship?
  7. What does love mean to you?
  8. What would you like me to do right now that will make you happier?
  9. What is your idea of an ideal man?
  10. What is your idea of an ideal relationship?
  • Questions To Ask Girlfriend Over Text:
  1. Would you kiss me where people are watching?
  2. Can I call you when I feel like hearing your voice?
  3. How many times did you want to kiss me before our actual first kiss?
  4. Do you trust me with your whole heart?
  5. Do you ever feel like we’ve known each other our whole lives?
  6. Would you rather hug for 5 seconds or kiss for 1 second?
  7. Would you kiss me on the neck?
  8. What do you feel when we hold each other’s hands?
  9. Would you take a break from your favorite hobby just to spend some time with me?
  10. As a couple, what should we call one another?
  • Questions To Ask A Girl You Like Over Text:
  1. What are five things you couldn’t live without?
  2. What’s one article of clothing you could never part with?
  3. Who’s someone in your life that you really look up to?
  4. What’s one of your most cherished memories?
  5. Have you ever hurt someone and deeply regretted it? Did you ever make amends?
  6. What’s the meaning of life?
  7. What’s your purpose in life?
  8. Do you believe in an afterlife?
  9. Do you like your life right now? If not, what’s keeping you from changing it?
  10. What people have made you who you are today?
  • Questions To Ask Over Text:
  1. What’s your favorite way to spend a day off?
  2. What type of music are you into?
  3. What was the best vacation you ever took and why?
  4. Where’s the next place on your travel bucket list and why?
  5. What are your hobbies, and how did you get into them?
  6. What was your favorite age growing up?
  7. What was the last thing you read?
  8. Would you say you’re more of an extrovert or an introvert?
  9. What’s your favorite ice cream topping?
  10. What was the last TV show you binge-watched?
  • How To Ask Someone To Be Your Girlfriend Over Text:
  1. Do your friends know about me?
  2. Do you want to date other guy’s or do you want to have me?
  3. I’m a lot to handle, are you sure you want to date me?
  4. Would you be jealous if you saw me flirting with another girl?
  5. Do you want to come to hang out with my friends?
  6. Do you mind if I post this picture of us on Instagram?
  7. Can you give me a massage?
  8. If I never talked to you again, how much would you miss me?
  9. What did you think about me on our first date?
  10. Are you surprised that we are still dating?
  • How To Start Conversation With A Girl Over Text:
  1. Have you ever fallen asleep in class?
  2. What’s the weirdest thing you and your partner have ever done together?
  3. Have you ever blown water out of your nose on a date?
  4. Have you ever had a sexy dream about someone? If so, who?
  5. Who do you think has had the most hook-ups in this room?
  6. Who’s the hottest person you’ve ever kissed?
  7. Have you ever regifted a gift?
  8. Have you ever had feelings for your best friend?
  9. What was the worst thing you ever sent to the wrong person?
  10. Have you ever farted and blamed it on someone else?
  • Questions To Ask Your Crush While Texting:
  1. Where’s the strangest place you’ve ever made out?
  2. How do you make sure that you please your partner?
  3. What makes intimacy really good for you?
  4. Do you have any regrets about past partners?
  5. How did you lose your virginity?
  6. Are you a big kisser?
  7. What does making love mean to you?
  8. If we had an entire weekend together, what would you really want to do?
  9. What’s something you never want to do during sex?
  10. What was the worst sexual experience you’ve ever had?
  • Things To Ask Your Crush Over Text:
  1. There’s just something about you. I haven’t figured out what it is yet. Do you know?
  2. You drive me a little crazy, you know that?
  3. You know you’re amazing right?
  4. What would you say if I asked you out to dinner?
  5. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  6. What’s behind that smile of yours I wonder?
  7. Is it too early to tell you how amazing I feel around you?
  8. Can you name three things that always make you smile?
  9. What are you thinking of right now?
  10. What am I thinking of right now? Guess.
  • How To Ask What Are We Over Text:
  1. How do you feel things are going with us?
  2. What do we need to do to improve in our relationship?
  3. What are your goals for our relationship?
  4. What’s your idea of a healthy relationship?
  5. When do you want to take the next step in our relationship?
  6. Where do you see us in a year?
  7. What do you hope never changes about our relationship?
  8. Do you feel like anything is missing from our relationship?
  9. Do you feel the same way I feel for you?
  10. So are we officially dating now?
  • Questions To Ask A Lesbian Crush:
  1. Do you own a vibrator?
  2. What is your favorite sexual position? What is your least favorite sexual position?
  3. Do you like porn?
  4. When were you first attracted to a woman? How did you act on it?
  5. What is the sexiest quality I can have?
  6. Do you have a fetish?
  7. Do you like to be dominated? Or do you prefer to be the dominant one?
  8. What are your favorite places to be touched? Where are your least favorite places to be touched?
  9. What do you fantasize about?
  10. Do you read erotica? What is the sexiest book you’ve ever read?
  • How To Turn On Your Girlfriend Over Text:
  1. Just so you know, I’m going to eat you out tonight.
  2. I can’t stop looking through those pictures you sent me. You look so sexy.
  3. Tonight is going to be all about you, baby. You don’t have to lift a finger.
  4. I’m going to make you orgasm. More than once.
  5. I miss feeling the curves of your body pressed against mine.
  6. I can’t wait to see you so I can run my lips across your neck.
  7. I’ve been counting down the days until you’re in my bed again.
  8. Picture my head in between your legs, because that’s where it’s going to be later.
  9. I orgasm the hardest when I’m thinking about you.
  10. You have the most gorgeous ass I have ever seen.
  • How To Ask A Girl On A Date Over Text:
  1. Let’s get wasted and finally admit how we feel about each other.
  2. Would you grace me with your presence this Saturday night?
  3. You. Me. Movies. 8:00.
  4. Want to come over to study? And by study, I mean make-out?
  5. If you’re not doing anything Friday, you can do me.
  6. My psychic told me you’d agree to get dinner with me tonight. Was she right or should I fire her?
  7. Ready to change your relationship status?
  8. Last night, I had a dream you asked me out. You should do it for real this time.
  9. Clear your schedule, because I’m taking you on the best date of your life this weekend.
  10. Do you want to go out with me? Yes or yes?
  • How To Ask A Girl Out Text:
  1. Want to see a PG movie and do R-rated things in the back of the theater?
  2. You’re single. I’m single. We could change that together.
  3. I can’t think of a better way to spend my weekend than alongside you.
  4. Congratulations! You won yourself a date with me!
  5. If I ask you to hang out, will you understand that I’m asking you on a date or should I make it more clear?
  6. If you can guess what my favorite restaurant is, I’ll take you there.
  7. You don’t have to keep flirting with me to test the waters. You can just ask me out.
  8. Here’s a crazy thought: We should be boyfriend and girlfriend.
  9. If we got together, I think we’d be the sexiest couple around. Let’s see if I’m right.
  10. Why would you stay single when you could have me?
  • Questions To Ask Your Crush Over Text:
  1. Can you tell me something you’ve never told someone else?
  2. Can I tell you something about my parents?
  3. What part of the world would you love to travel to?
  4. If you were to start a family somewhere in the world, where would it be?
  5. Name three things that never leave you or your hands, no matter what?
  6. Who understands you well in your family?
  7. What friend do you trust the most?
  8. If you were to choose a song you’ll have to listen to forever, what would it be?
  9. Tell me one stupidest thing you have done in your life?
  10. What flavor of ice cream do you love?
  • How To Ask Out A Girl Over Text:
  1. I really want to go on a date with you, but I’m really scared about how you’ll respond.
  2. I’m taking you out tonight. You don’t get to say no.
  3. It’s date night! Don’t stand me up.
  4. I can read your mind, and yes, I’ll go out with you.
  5. I don’t normally make the first move, but there’s no way I’m letting you get away.
  6. I’m in a good mood, so if you take me out tonight, you might just get laid.
  7. My friends think we’d make a cute couple. Let’s prove them right.
  8. We’ve been friends for long enough. Let’s take things to the next level.
  9. No, I don’t have any plans this weekend. (That’s your cue to ask me out.)
  10. I really want to go on a date tonight. If only there were someone to ask me…
  • Things To Ask Your Crush Over Text:
  1. When was your first kiss?
  2. How do you want to be proposed to? In a crowded city square with a backing band or privately on a scenic mountaintop?
  3. What song do you wish was written about you?
  4. What kind of wedding do you want? A beach ceremony with 50 of your closest friends, or a lavish blowout with 300 people and a live band?
  5. Do you believe in soul mates?
  6. Who was your first crush?
  7. How do you know when you’re in love?
  8. Are relationships meant to last forever?
  9. What makes you feel sexy?
  10. What is the hottest thing I can wear?
  • How To Text A Girl You Just Met:
  1. What was the best of year of your life so far?
  2. What’s your favorite thing to do on the internet?
  3. What do you spend most of your time doing?
  4. What do you spend way too much money on?
  5. Who do you have a hard time taking seriously?
  6. What do you judge people for most often?
  7. What’s your favorite thing to shop for? Why?
  8. What’s the best compliment that someone can receive?
  9. What’s something you can do that most people can’t?
  10. How do you calm yourself down when you are angry?
  • Things To Ask Your Crush Over Text:
  1. What event small or large has changed the course of your life the most?
  2. What is something you have read or heard that has stuck with you for a long time?
  3. What’s something that people go on and on about, and you just can’t take sitting through?
  4. When was the last time you tried to do something to look cool and it ended in utter embarrassment?
  5. What is the most cringe worthy thing you have seen someone post on social media?
  6. What is the most ridiculous rule you have to follow?
  7. What bullet have you recently dodged?
  8. What country do you not know the location of even though you should?
  9. What do you have a hard time with but most people find quite easy?
  10. What’s the most impressive skill you have?
  11. What’s a huge story in the news that you care absolutely nothing about?
  • Deep Questions To Ask Your Crush Over Text:
  1. How many kids would you like to have in the future?
  2. Do I make you happy?
  3. What is your idea of a perfect evening?
  4. Do you remember the first time we met?
  5. Are you a dog person or a cat person?
  6. What would be your ideal vacation with me?
  7. Do you believe that I am your one and only soulmate?
  8. Where would we go for our honeymoon?
  9. Would you meet my parents?
  10. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?
  • Asking A Girl Out Over Text:
  1. Let’s make plans that we won’t actually cancel.
  2. I don’t know if I’ve ever told you this, but I’m dying to go on a date with you.
  3. What should I wear on our date tonight? Oh, by the way, we’re going on a date tonight.
  4. You’re bored? Let me come over and entertain you.
  5. I’m too impatient to wait for you to ask me out, so I figured I’d do it myself.
  6. You look like a good kisser. Let me see if I’m right.
  7. I’ve been trying to figure out how I should ask you out. Any ideas?
  8. We already act like an old married couple. Might as well make that a reality.
  9. If I asked you out on a date, would you say yes? Hypothetically, of course.
  10. I can’t wait until our date. How long until you actually ask me out on one?
  11. I like you a lot. Would you like to go on a date with me?
  • How To Ask A Girl Out Over Text Examples:
  1. Wednesday night. Dinner. Be early
  2. Generic compliments, playful teases and emoticons aside— drink Wednesday?
  3. Can’t think of a good reason to go out for a celebratory drink . . . but I’m sure it’s someone’s birthday, somewhere right now so we should toast to that.
  4. Surely a bad day today for any adventurous outdoor dates—so how about I loan you a towel whilst I make us hot chocolate?
  5. How about we do a bake off this weekend? You’ll win, but I’ll enjoy feeding you cupcakes.
  6. Let’s buy souvenir t-shirts and spend a weekend sightseeing . . . tourist style.
  7. That just makes me think of ASIAN FOOD . . . Looks like we’ll have to get that this weekend to satisfy my craving.
  8. Hands tired . . . fingers aching . . . all this texting is giving me RSI. Let’s carry this conversation on in person—after work good for you?
  9. I still want to talk fashion, eat Italian and drink cocktails . . . preferably this Thursday at ‘XYZ’ Restaurant.
  10. Enough of texting. Let’s just meet this weekend?
  • Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend:
  1. How would you know if I was the right person for you?
  2. What is your biggest weakness?
  3. Do you think guys should always make the first move?
  4. What does a happy and healthy relationship look like to you?
  5. What would your exes say about you if I asked?
  6. What would you do if I kissed you in public?
  7. What is your unrealized sexual fantasy?
  8. If you had to choose between your best friend and me, what you would do?
  9. What do you remember about the time you met me?
  10. What role does physical attraction play in whether or not you should pursue a romantic relationship?
  • How To Ask Someone On A Date Over Text:
  1. Let’s link up this weekend. Picnic for good weather, indoors if not the former.
  2. Is it bad to admit I’m bored at my desk? How about we rename today Madness Mondays and make like it’s Friday night?
  3. You’re ridiculously busy. I’m ridiculously busy. Let’s multi- task and do a study date. Just promise not to distract me.
  4. Ok cool. Let’s meet in person to discuss, Wednesday or Thursday night best for you?
  5. We should do ICE SKATING one day, good for your POSTURE, don’t you know?
  6. Texting is ok but how about we upgrade each other to face time? Coffee Wednesday?
  7. We always seem to miss each other. I want to change that. How about we kick start with coffee next week?
  8. Just watched the THIRTEEN SAMURAI and find myself in the mood for JAPANESE FOOD. A little wrong I know, but you better not say no to SUSHI.
  9. Ever heard of a backwards dinner? We kick start with ICE CREAM, and wind up doing CANAPES at midnight. Plan is best executed on Friday night—does that work ok for you?
  10. What are you drinking right now? I’d like to buy you another one.
  • How To Get To Know Someone Over Text:
  1. What was the craziest thing that your parents did that you know about?
  2. Are you a good cook? What foods do you like to make?
  3. What is your go-to comfort food?
  4. What do you enjoy doing the most on your free weekends?
  5. What is a pet peeve that you have?
  6. What do people do that makes you angry?
  7. What is something that makes you happy?
  8. Do you like where you live right now?
  9. What do you not feel guilty spending money on?
  10. What is your dream car?
  • Flirty Questions To Ask Your Crush While Texting:
  1. Is laughing in the bedroom okay with you, or do you prefer keeping things serious?
  2. What’s the longest you’ve gone without doing it?
  3. What’s the most number of times you’ve done it in a row?
  4. Do you like watching me touch myself?
  5. I heard kissing burns a lot of calories. Want to help me exercise?
  6. Do you want to play dirty truth or dare?
  7. Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?
  8. What would you do if I answered the door without clothes on?
  9. Have you ever been caught going solo? By who?
  10. Do you prefer your partner shaved or all natural?
  • Texting Girlfriend:
  1. In an ideal world, how long would foreplay be?
  2. What do my lips taste like?
  3. Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?
  4. If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
  5. If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?
  6. If we were in a movie theater, and I wanted to do it, what would you want me to do?
  7. What’s one thing you want me to do to you that I haven’t done?
  8. What’s the farthest we can go on a date?
  9. What would you do if I sent you a dirty photo of me?
  10. How would you describe your most intimate fantasies?
  • How To Tell A Girl You Like Her Over Text:
  1. How would you want to know if someone likes you?
  2. What do you like the most about yourself?
  3. Is everyone else in your family also really good-looking?
  4. What would you do if I called you in the middle of the night?
  5. What do you wear when you sleep?
  6. Do you even realize how much I like talking to you?
  7. How do you feel when we are together?
  8. What makes someone sexy to you?
  9. Have you ever dreamt of me?
  10. How would you respond if I asked you out tonight?
  • Best Way To Ask A Girl Out Over Text:
  1. I only want to date you, will you be my gf?
  2. I’m ready to be your boyfriend, are you ready to be my girlfriend?
  3. Can we make it official and be boyfriend/girlfriend?
  4. Would you do me the honor of being my girlfriend?
  5. I’m in this for the long-term, wanna be my girlfriend?
  6. You’re the only girl I want. Will you please be my girlfriend?
  7. I like you very much, and I’d like you to be my girlfriend. What do you say?
  8. I know you, and I would make a great couple. Will you be my girlfriend?
  9. You will make me the happiest person in the world if you say yes to being my girlfriend. What do you think?
  10. I think it’s time we take our friendship to the next level. Will you be my girlfriend?
  • Subtle Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy:
  1. What was the last dirty dream you had? Was I in it?
  2. What naughty fantasies do you have about me?
  3. What’s one public place where you would want to do it?
  4. Have you ever bought lingerie for a woman?
  5. What’s the best thing a woman can do to you in bed?
  6. What do you look for in a partner for the bedroom?
  7. Spit or swallow?
  8. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?
  9. Does the thought of recording a video turn you on?
  10. Would you like to dominate me in bed?
  • How To Get To Know A Girl:
  1. What corny pick-up line have you used that’s actually worked? Try it on me
  2. What cute things do you enjoy doing when you’re dating someone?
  3. Do you think you’d ever be willing to have an open relationship?
  4. Have you ever used dating apps or websites?
  5. What was the first thing you thought about me when you saw me?
  6. If we were to end up on an deserted island, what are the three things you’d want to have with us?
  7. Do you think a guy and a girl can be friends without catching feelings?
  8. If you could spend an entire day with your crush, what would you do?
  9. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever done to get a crush’s attention?
  10. “What is your biggest turn on?”
  • How To Ask A Girl To Be Your Girlfriend:
  1. I only want to date you, will you be my gf?
  2. I’m ready to be your boyfriend, are you ready to be my girlfriend?
  3. Can we make it official and be boyfriend/girlfriend?
  4. Would you do me the honor of being my girlfriend?
  5. I’m in this for the long-term, wanna be my girlfriend?
  6. You’re the only girl I want. Will you please be my girlfriend?
  7. I like you very much, and I’d like you to be my girlfriend. What do you say?
  8. I know you, and I would make a great couple. Will you be my girlfriend?
  9. You will make me the happiest person in the world if you say yes to being my girlfriend. What do you think?
  10. I think it’s time we take our friendship to the next level. Will you be my girlfriend?
  • How To Ask A Girl Out Over Text:
  1. Hey, I know these great places where they have (something you know she likes) Let’s go tomorrow!
  2. You seem to be the kind of person who has strong ideas and likes to have fun, just like me. So have some fun out (somewhere fun) tomorrow!
  3. You know what? If you promise to be my tour guide morning when we go to (a place she knows). I’ll give you some lessons (something that you know) in reward.
  4. You are bored? Well, if you play your cards right, I could take you to a great place to have (something she likes) this afternoon.
  5. You’re not doing anything right now? So let me take you (a fun place) where we will have the best (something she loves) you’ve ever tasted!
  6. Hey, my friends and I spent the afternoon in a friendly place, if you want to come you’re invited.
  7. Party at my house at 5 PM! Be sure to bring my favorite wine or I will send you back.
  8. I adore you and would love to have you as my girlfriend. So, what are your thoughts?
  9. I believe you and I would make an excellent couple. Are you willing to be my girlfriend?
  10. If you accept my proposal to be my girlfriend, you will make me the happiest person in the planet. What are your thoughts?
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